tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16510979.post115694699386269858..comments2023-09-20T09:33:22.319-05:00Comments on Kemp's Blog: To separate or not to separate; that is the questionUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16510979.post-1158698275395638042006-09-19T15:37:00.000-05:002006-09-19T15:37:00.000-05:00Timely...We just decided to separate our twins in ...Timely...<BR/><BR/>We just decided to separate our twins in preschool this fall. They're only 2.5, but one (the girl) is already bossing the boy around all the time. His only word seems to be a cross no...<BR/><BR/>I'm glad I'm not the only one!Stacyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05784762797071642899noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16510979.post-1157944110760299802006-09-10T22:08:00.000-05:002006-09-10T22:08:00.000-05:00Another tale of "It worked for them" from a neighb...Another tale of "It worked for them" from a neighbor of mine years ago...He was an elementary school teacher and an identical twin. He said that he and his twin were SO dependent on each other that they couldn't do anything on their own. They did so poorly together that they split them and had them repeat the 1st (or was it 2nd?) grade to re-learn what they wouldn't learn well together.Johnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09459043153574089132noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16510979.post-1157566578060248502006-09-06T13:16:00.000-05:002006-09-06T13:16:00.000-05:00I doubt that this is the end-all, end-all of this ...I doubt that this is the end-all, end-all of this decision. When they get older, they may choose to be in the same class... or not.<BR/><BR/>This is what worked for me...<BR/><BR/>And Ryan, I'm glad I was able to get a positive response from an "older" twin. Thanks...Kemphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14153360319843908598noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16510979.post-1157501746864030742006-09-05T19:15:00.000-05:002006-09-05T19:15:00.000-05:00I am really screwed up because I was separated fro...I am really screwed up because I was separated from my twin brother during school. :) Just kidding.<BR/><BR/>My twin and I were always separated in all the schools we went to, with the exception of having one English class together in Junior High School (not sure why that happened). It was nice to have space to think and relate on my own, and most importantly, to avoid being constantly compared within the context of the classroom.Ryanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11600566662715855363noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16510979.post-1157255962577911892006-09-02T22:59:00.000-05:002006-09-02T22:59:00.000-05:00At my son's preschool there was a set of twins and...At my son's preschool there was a set of twins and they were in different classes. One of the twins was in the same class as my son and so I got to know the parents well. When the birthday invite arrived, I noticed that only one twin was named as the honoree. When I called to RSVP they told me they have two parties, two sets of invites and they rotate the date every year so one twin has the b-day party on or close to their real birthday and the other has it a week or so later. The parents said that they felt this made sense to them because if their children had not been sharing a womb at the same time and had been siblings in the other fashion, like one being born a year later than the other, they would have had separate parties, etc. Believe me, I am NOT saying it is better or worse because I don't have twins and would never tell anyone how to parent them even if I did, just passing along a tale of "It worked for them" as an FYI piece. : )Devrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10264076539570620156noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16510979.post-1157031980171721862006-08-31T08:46:00.000-05:002006-08-31T08:46:00.000-05:00Thanks for sharing your reasoning for the split --...Thanks for sharing your reasoning for the split -- I'm always interested in that issue too. Sounds like you made the right decision. When it's time for ours to go to school I hope there's some indication like with your girls to help in our decision. It's probably a little different with boy/girl twins too. I have a little time for research though.Brendahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13961739006307914355noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16510979.post-1156957664841794622006-08-30T12:07:00.000-05:002006-08-30T12:07:00.000-05:00This question always fascinates me. My kids are on...This question always fascinates me. <BR/><BR/>My kids are only two, so when they start preschool in a few weeks Gabe and I decided to put them in the same class. Right now I am leaning toward splitting them up sometime between their 4 year preschool class and 1st grade. I think that twins need to learn to be individuals. I'm just not sure when.<BR/><BR/>Hell - I'm not even sure when I am going to give them their own rooms. I guess I'm waiting for them to ask. I'm not sure I'm ready to give up the computer room yet.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16510979.post-1156949770329946252006-08-30T09:56:00.000-05:002006-08-30T09:56:00.000-05:00Very interesting; thank you for sharing that. Lik...Very interesting; thank you for sharing that. Like I had said before, my parents did the same thing; they decided to split my sister and me up when we started kindergarten, but then they couldn't do anything about it after that, with the school deciding we'd benefit from being in the same class (not from each other, but because they tracked kids then based on reading levels and such). However, I think it did us some good the first year that we were separated. You get compared enough that it's nice to have that space for yourself in which to grow and become your own person.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com